Brown Vulnerability

“People who have a strong sense of love and connection believe they are worthy of love and connexion. It is as simple as that.” “They let go of who they should be to become who they were and that was necessary for connexion.” The point here is that vulnerability andContinue Reading

Empty Train Station

I once did a comic review on why one can never esteem oneself wrong. The reason being that when you know you were wrong, you are again right. This video is interesting. The proposition here is that stupid people have a tendency to think themselves correct and smart people haveContinue Reading

Dog

Here is a video on the different kinds of dogs that can have some alone time in an apartment. The video is also useful because it brings thoughts on which breeds to consider for the apartment. The description to the video is a nice recap. The breeds cited are TerrierContinue Reading

France Bird

Can the “Attestation sur l’honneur” save an incomplete dossier? Administrative deadlines suck. There will be some nomninative documents attached to this post for convenience. Here is the most impressive form I have seen, the CERFA-1175202. Here is some links I found doing research on the subject of Attestation sur l’honneur.https://www.aide-sociale.fr/declaration-sur-l-honneur/https://www.linternaute.fr/actualite/guide-vie-quotidienne/1413760-attestation-sur-l-honneur-lettre-type/Continue Reading

Moon

When is ADHD not ADHD (or not as ADHD as it seems)? Perhaps when it is OSA: Obstructive Sleep Apnea. A quick internet search seems to confirm what I heard left and right; sleep apnea symptoms can be mistaken for ADHD symptoms. A sleep polysomnography was part of my ownContinue Reading

Small Work Group

UU Small Group Ministry is a structure where a group of individuals can be there for one another in a structured lay-led discussion group. I was taught the structure with the topic on “listening.” The file for that particular topic is available via the link below. http://www.smallgroupministry.net/public/sessions/Listening.doc The usefulness ofContinue Reading

The HowTo ADHD videos on the Top 5 Relationship Rules recommends this book. Why don’t we understand one another? This book takes the perspective of a marriage counselor who tries to teach couples how to speak each other’s language. I have heard the audiobook of the first two love languages:Continue Reading

Sky

I know two influential ADHD Unitarian Universalist ministers. One wears his ADHD on his sleeve. The other has other things to worry about. Here is the quote that convinced me that Unitarianism is an interesting thing. This contribution from Emerson led to his expulsion as a UU minister. Ironic thatContinue Reading

The Mann Planner

I was told I needed a paper agenda to manage my time with Adult ADHD. Therefore, I spent 11 hours trying to find what would work for me. After trying many different things, I settled on the attached Excel file. The instructions are on the sheet labeled “instructions.” The pagesContinue Reading

HOWTO ADHD

This is a selection of my favorite videos by Jessica McCabe, her research on Adult ADHD and her own first-hand experience. Jessica McCabe’s TEDx Talk “Failing at Normal” Here is a link to the 17-minute TEDx talk by Jessica McCabe on her life with Adult ADHD. It is moving. HowContinue Reading